The love language of SERVICE is my favorite of the 5 (time, talk, gifts, service, and touch) because it's the one I like to receive the best.
Also, as you'll see in the description below, a person who speaks the love language of SERVICE is always full of advice for other people on how they should run their lives. And that's what I do for a living! Give advice!
The vast benefit of speaking the love language of your customer is that she will understand you faster and trust you more. That's true whether your "customer" is your partner, your child, or your next-door neighbor.
Watch the video here or keep reading to learn more about how the love language of SERVICE will serve you!
Her love language is SERVICE!
1. Ask for feedback
Even if this customer complains a lot, ask her for her input, and be sure to say, "Thank you!"
2. Implement the changes
If she cares enough to tell you her ideas, take her suggestions!
Put more staff people on the sales floor, or offer your products in more sizes. Why not? She's the customer, she knows what she wants!
3. Report back
Get in touch with your customer, tell her that you have indeed implemented her suggestions, and tell her which ideas are working. Let her know she has made a huge difference in your business.
One Don't and One Do
DON'T get defensive and deny that there's any issue
DO maturely accept that there's always room for improvement
When you speak the love language of SERVICE, you can turn your worst enemy into your most loyal client!
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Today's video on Using the Love Language of SERVICE is aimed at entrepreneurs, but you can certainly use this love language at home, too:
Do you recognize these loving questions?
or how about these actions, even if there are no words attached?
photo by Daryn Barlett | Unsplash
When somebody feels loved in the way she WANTS to be loved, she'll trust you more.
She's more likely to confide in you, tell you the truth, and build a long-lasting relationship with you.
Here's the punchline:
If you speak the love language of SERVICE, are you speaking it to YOURSELF also?
Do you organize your life so that it runs smoothly? Is your diary filled out, did you pack yourself a lunch?
We can speak the languages of love to ourselves as well. They work internally as well as externally. In fact, that's the main job, isn't it?
To show ourselves we are loveable and worthy, just because we are children of God, without waiting on somebody else to prove it to us.
And now, a happy success story!
A car hooted at me on the street, and a woman rolled down her window. A man was sitting next to her, driving the car. They pulled over to talk to me.
"Shannon! I spoke with you years ago, and you said I would get back together with my boyfriend, and we could have two children together. I did it! We did it! Here he is, meet him!"
I laughed and laughed, and I greeted the very nice man driving the car. He smiled and waved, obviously used to his wife's delightful enthusiasm.
She continued, "We have two children, they are soooo beautiful. Want to see photos?" She pulled out her phone and showed me.
We hugged, and I wished them well.
A divine guidance session is *not* fortune-telling.
She could have chosen not to re-unite with her ex (they'd been split up for 3 years!) but she took the advice and ran with it, and now she's happier than she's ever been in her life.
Always remember, #YouAreGuided