Question on love

Question on love

Get past the emotional clouds and go straight to a yes/no answer by asking about a romantic relationship.
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Question On Love

Christine
I don't know how I feel about him. I don't know, I can't locate my feeling. Why is he in my life? Why?

Shannon Walbran
That would be a "he" question. That would mean that I can't answer it like that, but the cards would help you with, "How should I ..." or even "Should I?"

"Should I include Andrew in my life or not?" You have the power to include or exclude anybody in your life. Nobody is forced to be in your life. Unless it's your child and you have custody of your child.

Christine
Yeah, I have a mixed feelings. I don't know how to situate myself with this person. Very mixed very ...

Shannon Walbran
I hear powerlessness. But okay, let's see.

Christine
[Laughs]

Shannon Walbran
If this person knocks on your door, and you didn't feel like seeing him, could you say, "I'm busy now." Could you say that?

Christine
I could.

I don't want to see him. When I when I hear his car coming up, I don't want to see him. But he's a nice person. He's a kind person. He's a generous person. And when he leaves, I always feel good. But the anticipation of him coming is not good. I don't know what that ...

Shannon Walbran
There are a lot of nice people in the world. You don't have to entertain all of them.

Christine
Yeah.

Shannon Walbran
There are perhaps other nice people in the world that might not give you that weird feeling when their car pulls up in the driveway. So: "Should I include Andrew in my life?" Could we have the map cards for this?

Christine
Should I shuffle? Oh, the rains are coming. Beautiful!

All right: "Should I include Andrew in my life?"

Shannon Walbran
There! Yeah, it's that one that's stuck up! Did you see that one? Nope. There! Earlier. Go back. That one. It's the first one. That's it. You got it.

Christine
All right, that's the "Awareness" card.

Shannon Walbran
Wizard of ...?

Christine
Awareness.

Shannon Walbran
"Wizard of Awareness." I know it's an old man figure. But it is actually you. You are this figure. You're aware of something that's going on below the surface. You have feelings, you have mixed feelings, and you are aware of your mixed feelings. There's something that doesn't add up for you about this person.

Christine
I don't know why.

Shannon Walbran
Isn't that just okay? When we go back to what you actually desire? Isn't it okay for you to not have all the answers, but to just make a decision about what brings you joy and what doesn't bring you joy?

Christine
Yep.

Shannon Walbran
Are you allowed to sew even if it's not going to be profitable? Are you allowed to read a book? Even if you maybe should be doing the cooking?

Christine
Yeah.

Shannon Walbran
Is your daughter allowed to ask for a new iPad? If she wants a new iPad?

Christine
Yep!

Shannon Walbran
Because she knows that her iPad is too old. And she needs a new one. I mean, she's smart. She knows stuff.

Christine
I don't know. I don't know if I trust him. But I don't know why.

Shannon Walbran
I think I'm gonna trust the Wizard of Awareness on this one.

Christine
Ja. So, I want an answer. I want a yes or no answer here.

Shannon Walbran
I got an answer. I got a "NO." I got a, "Should I include Andrea in my life? No!" The Wizard of Awareness is telling you. Do you see those spirally things behind the Wizard of awareness? There's something going on, that you're aware of, that you can't quite name, and it's something vibey. And for you, something is off!
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